A man must at times be hard as nails: willing to face up to the truth about himself, and about the woman he loves, refusing compromise when compromise is wrong. But he must also be tender. No weapon will breach the armor of a woman's resentment like tenderness.

Elisabeth Elliot
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Being hard as nails is not the same as being tough. Being hard as nails means that one believes in oneself, and does not waver on something until one has completed the task. One must be willing to face up to the truth about oneself, and about the woman he loves, refusing compromise when compromise is wrong. But he must also be tender.

This quote speaks of how a man must be both hard and tender at the same time. He must be willing to work through matters with his partner or wife, but also caring enough to try to mend their differences.

Source: The Mark Of A Man

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